Frustrated!

When somebody ask you a question, should you answer?

Or should you just shut the fuck up to avoid saying things that might make things worse than it already seems?

When somebody made a mistake, should he apologize, admit his mistakes, and promise he won't (hopefully) repeat it again?

or should he (again) just shut the fuck up to listen to the other person frustratingly scolding him regarding the mistakes he made to avoid the other person to use what he replied against him?

This is fuckingly frustrating. People made mistakes. i know i did mistakes. heck, who doesn't when it was one's first time doing something? i need more practise, i know.

But do you HAVE to repeat those mistakes and scold me about the mistakes i ALREADY KNOW along the way?? I'm SORRY i did it. But when you babble the mistakes i made along the way when i'm driving, it distracts me and i panicked because i was worried that mistake will happen again. Your orders and babbling drive me nuts!

If thousands of other people out there can bloody drive a car, why can't i? give me a chance for heaven's sake! it was only that ONE MISTAKE!