Ok, I'll give you guys a situation. Ponder this for a moment:
There's this guy and girl who loves each other, and are an official couple. (they claim to be.) But they seem to be like an easy going couple. They're not the same like other lovey-dovey type of couples.
They claim that they love each other but they treat each other as mere friends.
Yes, friends as in not much lovey-dovey words coming out from their mouth towards each other. They don't even mind if they don't contact each other for a few days.
They claim that its not that they didn't miss the him/her. They do miss each other but they just kept to themselves and pay less attention towards that particular feeling which would soon be distracted.
Ok, and one day this girl signs in her account in a social network website and found her boyfriend has deleted her from his account.
When she asked him why, he replied "The site isn't important. It's a waste of time. Besides, its better that way cuz there's a little bit of thrill and mystery we keep everyone wondering."
Here's a little background before you put a judgement regarding this matter. Before he deleted her, he told her that he doesn't like using the social network website and wanted to delete his account. He asked his girlfriend to do the same but she refused. He questioned the hundreds of guys the girl has in her account as friends but she said they were friends from the past years. After the incident, he respects her decision and deletes her from his account instead of deleting his account.
However she noticed he has never/SERIOUSLY rarely chatting with girls in that social network website eventhough he can. (he rarely chat with girls even since before they met each other) and he doesn't show signs of cheating behind her back at all or even jealousy.
He claim that he doesn't mind about her being with another guy at all. He said to her that jealousy doesn't exist in his soul and he doesn't know why. But still, he told her that doesn't mean he never cared or loved her.
And at times he will throw his best effort in doing favors for his girlfriend even though it troubles him. He would still entertain her wishes or questions even if sometimes it appears against his willingness.
So what do you think this situation explains? Is the boyrfriend hiding something? Or is the boyfriend is trully sincere in loving her? (although in a bit awkward kind of way). Why do you think he deletes her? And from this situation do you think he really actually loves her or no?
Please leave a comment regarding this problem. What is your point of view? What do you think of this? I'll be more than happy to listen.